Queer Men's Sangha
A Gathering for Gay, Bi, Curious, and Trans Men
Sit. Breathe. Share.
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A Warm and Inclusive Community
The Queer Men's Sangha is a warm and inclusive community for gay, bisexual, trans, and curious men.
So many queer men long for a space that feels grounded and real. The Queer Men's Sangha offers regular gatherings centered on group meditation and meaningful conversation.
Find connection, settle your mind, and speak from the heart.
What to Expect
A simple, welcoming space to sit together, breathe, and share
Meditation. We begin with a meditation to quiet our busy minds.
Dharma talk. A short, inspiring talk sets the tone for our conversation.
Sharing circle. A chance to connect with other queer men and go deeper.
Upcoming Gatherings
Save the date! Registration recommended.
Oct 16, 2026 · 6:30 PM
The Castro Room | San Francisco
Guest speaker: Aleksandar Zeljic
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Nov 20, 2026 · 6:30 PM
The Castro Room | San Francisco
Guest speaker: Durgadas Duriel
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Jan 29, 2027 · 6:30 PM
The Castro Room | San Francisco
Guest speaker: Glen North
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Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need prior meditation experience?
Not at all. Our practice is accessible to all levels, from complete beginners to experienced practitioners, and Darren offers gentle guidance so everyone feels comfortable. Want a head start? Try the free Mindfulness for Busy Minds mini-course.
Is the Sangha only for gay men?
The space centers the experiences of gay, bi, and trans men, including those who are curious or exploring their identity, but all are welcome.
How much does it cost?
Gatherings are sliding scale, and no one is ever turned away for financial reasons. Contribute what you can. If you're unable to contribute, you're still completely welcome. We want you there!
In Practice Since 1994
Darren Main
Darren Main has been guiding gay, bi, and curious men on a journey of self-discovery, healing, and empowerment since 1994. As a life coach, yoga teacher, meditation instructor, author, and massage therapist, he integrates mind, body, and spirit to help men step into their full potential.
Through his coaching, workshops, and writings, Darren has helped countless individuals break free from limiting beliefs, embrace their authentic selves, and cultivate deeper confidence, connection, and purpose. His holistic approach creates a supportive space for personal growth, mindfulness, and transformation, helping men not just navigate life but truly thrive.